Having a Moment with Uneven Hem Denim

Focus on the fit, not the size...easier said than done, right?

Seriously though -- When it comes to denim, not all sizes are created equal and as women, this can be extremely frustrating. I've talked about it before and I'm telling you guys again because this is IMPORTANT STUFF in the world of women's clothing - If you're looking for a new pair of jeans that feels like they were custom made for you, there's no more need to cry in the dressing room or go on Kanye's workout plan because the pair is out there already. 

It DOES exist -- (Santa? M&M's? Anyone?) 👀

Fitcode is awesome because it helps you find jeans that will look and feel great based on fit instead of size. How many times does a size 4 fit you in one store but you're a size 8 in another? It's whacked out but luckily, there's an easy way to solve this problem -- A short quiz will reveal your personal "Fitcode," followed by a custom "denim boutique" which features a variety of brands, styles and price points, all matching your "fit number." 

This is the second pair of jeans I've gotten through Fitcode and both times, I have been more than pleasantly surprised with the outcome. Let's be honest, I need more jeans like a hole in the head (think I have 18ish pairs...it's a problem), but I'm having a big time moment with the uneven hem so I've had a little trouble holding back from this pair from Silver Jeans. This brand has been around for so long, blending modern and vintage details and most recently, they have made some beautiful updates to the brand which has led to some majorly cool denim looks. This I've always loved distressed denim because of its laid back, casual vibes so when I started seeing raw, frayed edges on the bottom of jeans, it was love at first sight. Even more so, I like that so many of them are cropped, ankle styles which is perfect for bootie season -- My favorite of all! I dread the day when we have to start wearing socks because there's snow on the ground...

Needless to say, I'm going to be living in this pair for quite some time (or until that first flakes fall, at least). This mid-rise style is equal parts supportive and stylish -- Just the right combo for a new Mom! They're super soft, have an above-ankle inseam and oh yes, are completely ripped in the back near the ankle. It adds just the right amount of edge to my Fall weekend style.

SHOP MY STYLE:

And side note -- One of the reasons I love this season so much is because we get the chance to play around with cozy layers because we're not (yet) required to stuff ourselves into thick, uncomfortable heavy jackets. To expand on that, I am definitely living my best coat life this year...I have a growing collection of lightweight coats, sweater jackets and dusters, all which offer an extra element of effortless style to a basic jeans and tee look. This textured sweater topper was a fast favorite of mine! It's a great alternative to a bulky coat, pairs with almost anything and best of all, I can file it under

"Grandpa chic," a section of my wardrobe which (I'm not joking, nor sad about), continues to grow. Both my Mom AND Lisa own it as well and we are all different heights, shapes, etc., so it may be safe to say it looks good on everyone!

How do you guys shop for jeans?  Let me know if you have any questions about finding your "Fitcode!"
Wearing:
Top: Old Navy Jacket: c/o J. Jill Jeans: Silver Jeans c/o Fitcode  Booties: c/o Cabi Clothing Hat: Sole Society, sold out (similar) Purse: Express, sold out (Love this style too!)

J. Jill Ruby Slippers

I've always had a thing for red shoes. Red flats, specifically...this began at a very early age when I saw White Christmas for the first time. The last scene of the movie is an idyllic portrait of a picture perfect Christmas with fresh snow falling, a horse and carriage and Bing Crosby singing everyone's favorite holiday song. But before I could appreciate all of that, I was fixated on the young ballerinas who gracefully glide onto the stage in their bright red ballet toe shoes which match their gorgeous leotards. I don't know what it was but I wanted them (and to be like them) badly. I had never seen anything so beautiful...until I watched the Wizard of Oz, that is. Was there ever a more iconic pair of shoes worn in a film? Not only were those ruby slippers gorgeous but they could actually take you home...kind of gives them gold medal, no?

Fast forward many years later and I have my own pair of red slippers from J. Jill. The minute I saw them, I knew they would be perfect for transitioning to Fall and providing a pop of color many otherwise neutral outfits. They may not be made for ballet or making a wish, but they certainly recall a very nice memory for me and that makes them equally special. 

Wearing:

Top: c/o J. Jill

Jeans: c/o Fitcode

Shoes:  c/o J. Jill

Bag:  c/o J. Jill

Sunnies: LOFT

Earrings: Kendra Scott

Lipstick: Glominerals - "Crimson"

P.S. Thanks to my beautiful Mom for shooting photos for me...We have started doing that once a a week and not only is it just another chance for us to hang out, but she's so supportive of our blog (being that she has a very valuable one herself). I adore my husband but let's be honest, he's not always the most enthusiastic about shooting another outfit. Mom, on the other hand, finds fun in seeking out new shooting locations with me and never makes me feel like I'm interrupting her plans...as with everything in my life, I don't know what I would do without her. 

BTW, Mom is wearing a dress from LOFT a few years back...she just found it during a closet-cleaning binge and decided it was fit for the "keep" pile. I agree...the perfect throw & go Summer look :)

The Perfect Fit Starts Here

You know when you're shopping for new jeans and the first pair you try on fits like a glove? Wait, you don't know what I'm talking about? That's because this almost never happens. When I'm looking to to purchase new denim, I never go into the dressing room with less than 5 pairs because I know the  majority of them aren't going to meet my requirements...number one is usually that they are long enough (which is extremely rare) but in the end, I'm usually just hoping to find one that's a close enough match. 

I remember in high school, my best friend and I would always complain about the jean shopping struggle. We knew in our minds what we wanted them to look and feel like...if only we had the opportunity to the design them ourselves, we thought. Flash forward 10 years later and our high school selves would be "omg'ing" all over the place because thanks #modelproblems, this issue has finally been solved...

Have you guys heard of Fitcode? The site helps you find jeans that will look and feel great based on fit instead of size. LADIES - isn't this what we've always hoped for? A size 4 with one brand can be a size 8 with another, so for us, it's not about the number...it's about how they fit and contour to your body. 

Just by taking a short quiz, you can find your personal "Fitcode." From there, you receive a custom "denim boutique" which features a variety of brands, styles and price points. The Fitcode system will use your "fit number" to inform you of which size is best based on the specific pair of denim you choose. So if you fall in love with a pair of jeans, your code will help to ensure that you end up with the right size based on how they were designed. I was skeptical of this at first, especially since I felt like jeans are something that need to be tried on in person. However, I liked a lot of the jeans in my boutique so I selected my favorites and ultimately ended up picking this Blank NYC pair based on the description provided: "A tight stretchy fit and a little stacking at the ankles. Blank NYC nailed the low pocket placement on this one, giving the booty a visual lift." 

As for the real life results? Hello, lover! They are a great length because I can leave them long or stack them for an ankle crop and the wash is different from anything else I own. With the distressed details, it's edgy meets chic depending on how you want to style them and most importantly...They are the perfect fit ;) Another plus? This has introduced me to this brand so now when I'm shopping, I'll look to try on other Blank NYC pairs first. A new bff situation in the making here, guys...

  I wore these 3 times the first week I had them... Much like JT's new jam, these jeans are the hit of the Summer. 
Wearing:
Top: Old Navy (old but similar here under $20) Jeans: Blank NYC - c/o Fitcode Heels: Just Fab (old but I love the snake print heel here too) Clutch: (old, but I like this one too) Sunnies: c/o Ilymix (similar)